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Old 10-18-2009, 11:54 PM
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Maybe you guys can help me out with this. I dont know whats worse. A group a guys getting together trying to come up with a way to trick girls into bed by using routines and techniques. Or the group that spends their time and energy coming up with ways to spoil it for those guys and the guys who teach it to them and to make fun of them, when most of you are guys who actually come from a same place as them. Either is really the ideal place to be imo. I have been to that place before where I exchanged info and posts on how to PU women. I cant say that I have ever been on the other side of that before in bashing all that stuff before.
All I do know is that when guys do get into the PUA lifestyle in the beginning dont they do it because deep down they want to be happy when they arent happy? Doesnt society kind of pressure guys into the PUA scene once they find out about it because if they got women they would be happy all the sudden? On the other side of it, what is it about bashing PUAs that thinks it would make you happy. What good comes out of it? Does it really make your life better in any way?
I think its pretty safe to say that neither really makes your life happy. They are both just external forms that guys will focus on because it gives them a temporary fix. Improving your life and becoming happy has nothing to do with external shit. Its about building a life that you want. Not what somebody else says will make you cool or will make you happy. Im pretty sure that the guys who are on this forum and the other forums just want to be happy. So instead of looking for ways to "get" happiness (PUA forums) or ways to destroy other people from trying to "get" happiness. Why dont you find yourself what makes you happy and find out where your source of happiness comes from. I guarantee you it doesnt come from finding ways to get into girls pants and it def doesnt come from finding ways to fuck it up for those guys.
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Old 10-19-2009, 12:00 AM
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Tricks, tactics and routines DONT work
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Old 10-19-2009, 12:03 AM
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Maybe you guys can help me out with this. I dont know whats worse. A group a guys getting together trying to come up with a way to trick girls into bed by using routines and techniques. Or the group that spends their time and energy coming up with ways to spoil it for those guys and the guys who teach it to them and to make fun of them, when most of you are guys who actually come from a same place as them. Either is really the ideal place to be imo. I have been to that place before where I exchanged info and posts on how to PU women. I cant say that I have ever been on the other side of that before in bashing all that stuff before.

All I do know is that when guys do get into the PUA lifestyle in the beginning dont they do it because deep down they want to be happy when they arent happy? Doesnt society kind of pressure guys into the PUA scene once they find out about it because if they got women they would be happy all the sudden? On the other side of it, what is it about bashing PUAs that thinks it would make you happy. What good comes out of it? Does it really make your life better in any way?

I think its pretty safe to say that neither really makes your life happy. They are both just external forms that guys will focus on because it gives them a temporary fix. Improving your life and becoming happy has nothing to do with external shit. Its about building a life that you want. Not what somebody else says will make you cool or will make you happy. Im pretty sure that the guys who are on this forum and the other forums just want to be happy. So instead of looking for ways to "get" happiness (PUA forums) or ways to destroy other people from trying to "get" happiness. Why dont you find yourself what makes you happy and find out where your source of happiness comes from. I guarantee you it doesnt come from finding ways to get into girls pants and it def doesnt come from finding ways to fuck it up for those guys.
Yes neither will bring true happiness but none of the guys here are looking for the meaning of life in this forum. Just as well, none of us are taking this that seriously.
You don't get the "joke" about all this.
And spoil what for other guys? Spoil the fact that most the gurus they look up to aren't the gods they perceive them as?
It's called reality.
News flash: santa claus isn't real either.
Nobody is advocating that you quit trying to improve your life because the community is a sham. We're saying improve your life, but most of the community IS a sham and you should save your money.
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Old 10-19-2009, 12:15 AM
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"HATE" hates ......s...
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Old 10-19-2009, 12:25 AM
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Seriously, I have seen this shit over 9000 times.

Everyone always assumes that because we're on a hate forum, that we're unhappy losers...lol.

Let's just say that for me personally, the anti-community has helped me reverse the damage that the community did to my thought patterns and life in general. This was a huge blessing and honestly Barry Kirkey is kinda a hero to me for helping me get through this shit (even though he hates ......s).

So fuck off and die if you don't like puahate. We are doing a valuable public service and honestly helping people in more ways than you can even speculate.
haha yea he's obviously seeing things the way the scene has programmed him to.
Common community thinking-
People who don't believe everything gurus says= AFC, Chode, Not doing anything with their lives.
Anybody not in the scene= AFC, Chode, Not doing anything with their lives.
He can't see what's actually going on. But I guess I can't blame him. I would've got defensive about this too if I came across it 2 yrs ago.
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Old 10-19-2009, 05:17 AM
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tl;dr
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Old 10-19-2009, 06:32 AM
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I know what is worse... the ones who go around taking advantage of gullible emotionally retarded people to cater for their Z list celebrity lifestyle... *looks at Misery*
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Old 10-19-2009, 08:27 AM
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tl;dr
Agreed.
Srsly guys, learn to make your points under 20 sec or you are loosing me.
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Old 08-23-2011, 03:10 PM
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Maybe you guys can help me out with this. I dont know whats worse. A group a guys getting together trying to come up with a way to trick girls into bed by using routines and techniques. Or the group that spends their time and energy coming up with ways to spoil it for those guys and the guys who teach it to them and to make fun of them, when most of you are guys who actually come from a same place as them. Either is really the ideal place to be imo. I have been to that place before where I exchanged info and posts on how to PU women. I cant say that I have ever been on the other side of that before in bashing all that stuff before.

All I do know is that when guys do get into the PUA lifestyle in the beginning dont they do it because deep down they want to be happy when they arent happy? Doesnt society kind of pressure guys into the PUA scene once they find out about it because if they got women they would be happy all the sudden? On the other side of it, what is it about bashing PUAs that thinks it would make you happy. What good comes out of it? Does it really make your life better in any way?

I think its pretty safe to say that neither really makes your life happy. They are both just external forms that guys will focus on because it gives them a temporary fix. Improving your life and becoming happy has nothing to do with external shit. Its about building a life that you want. Not what somebody else says will make you cool or will make you happy. Im pretty sure that the guys who are on this forum and the other forums just want to be happy. So instead of looking for ways to "get" happiness (PUA forums) or ways to destroy other people from trying to "get" happiness. Why dont you find yourself what makes you happy and find out where your source of happiness comes from. I guarantee you it doesnt come from finding ways to get into girls pants and it def doesnt come from finding ways to fuck it up for those guys.
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